because you're a girl

*Because you're a Girl* These are the words which every girl have to listen in her house. By listening these words one must thought that there is a rule implemented here , that'd be break. Either it is inlaws or her parents house, every girl have to make compromises. It is injected in the mind that you must go to the next house where these non-serious attitude will not be tolerated but to be straightforward there is no boy in any house, to whom these things shared to him that work hard because you should have to take responsibility of other's daughter, in this so called soceity if any man would help her wife in her domestic chores he'd be called as *henpecked* husband, if we read the life history of *Hazrat Muhammad PBUH* we will see that our *Prophet PBUH* used to help himself but in our society it feel honoured that women should follow the order of her family members, in that ages, there were women workers, but now every sister mother daughter and wife have become servant of themn If we see the other side of this society we see that by being a Girl, used to be considered as as highly burden on the shoulder of the parents, parents brought her up in a very lavish way,in the end when she gets married, dowry is given to the inlaws of that daugher which cost approximately millions ruppes so that their daughter should be respected there, in islam it has been performed in a very simple way but now the hindu culture adopted and destroy the uniqueness of *Nikaah*, if anyone follows this simple rule, he is considered to be very close fisted man,after marriage girl has ti listen thet thorny words of her inlaws, a girl future os destroyed by the name of honour, why? Because her blunder is *to be a girl*? No doubt,islam has granted the great place to a man but it doesn't right to snatch the happiness of a girl, these are the men who feel themselves very honorable when their sister doesn't get interactive with other men,but their honorship dies when they interacted to other daughters or sisters.. These are the men who kill their sisters by the name of honor, they usually sleep on the bed of their wives which their father in laws grabted granted his daughter ..they desire that wome should do job but they don't tolerate that other men will see his woman,they long for that their women should bring the earning and put it in their hands and never demand anything in return, they want that she should do job and also do domestic household, if out of tiredness she utter something her tongue pull it up...thery are thoses honorable husband who got married twice but never take the responsibilities of only one wife, if their wives demand something for the casual expenditure thery hit her and prove that they are the most honorable one. *O God she has grown up should be get married soon* These words are uttered by the those relative who get active while in the issue of weddings or result otherwise to the whole year they don't show themselves that they are our relatives too, they stay outside like a dead battery, according to the estimation, in a university level girls got more seats than the boys, among some of them girls got married when they enter in the environment of university.Those aunts who think that girls get in the age of 22nd, they will be seemed as old ladies, if they become highly educated and don't get job because if they will adopt the job option, who else will look after their children, who else will do the household chores, street members will have a negative thoughts that their grand daughter do job and come late at night. People also say to the girls that do some efforts on her personality, if u don't do any makeup no one likes u, if you hace any deficiency in her personality it is also your fault but people never tell to her daughters that fault is basically in the eyes of others not in you, *boy is either good or bad he must be earining hand* this things we usually listen in our dayy to day life, but those stingy talks which girlshave to listen throughout her childhood, but these things should be understood to the boys.
In *Quran-E-Pak* we read that both men n women are dress to each other, nobody wants to wear filthy dress, it seems that women are usually treating like a dress if one gets up from taht dress he change the dress, girls have been nominated as a brand dresses to which tags are sticked, if u have the ability to buy it u can,here it doesn't mean that women are for sale, rather it means that she is hanged by afflicting some merits and some informative possession, and brand is introducing by the job of her father now whoever wants to get her or reject her why this happened in our society ???? *it's because you are a Girl* you can never reply either you are on a right option because you will be called as rude person and rude girls are never ever be treated as a good girl, stay quiet and never say a word, never laugh loudly, walk smoothly and talk with the manners.. whyy? *because you are a girl* we talk on the rights of women, we celebrate the *world women day* and organize seminars, we teach them how to raise voice for you rights but we don't tell all these rights to men that they don't have any right to snatch the basic rights of women why don't we tell them? Woman is not like a dress Women are not like a dress whenever you want to buy and wear it out and after getting too old you thrash it down,why don't we tell them that if they perform their duties women rights will be accomplished, why they have to be taught that if you love a women respect the women, you will be called as weak man, why don't they realize that if women sacrifice her life for him,he should have to respect her for her sacrifices. If we see that *(mother, daughter, sister, grand-daughter)* have not their lives, their lives spend to sacrifice for others, they left theri mother in old houses who has sacrificed her life for her children , who have taught her each and everything about life. And there is a daughter who gonna protect the dignity of her parents sacrifice to her desire and there is a brother who killed his sister by the name of honor, and there in laws, women are tortured by the name of dowry, is ther all these things happened to a man in this society? Because man has been taught since the childhood that man never cries thats why he torture others, he has been taught that if his one will is not been fulfilled by his earnings he can fulfil it through the dowry of a women if he doesn't

get it he can torture her. In the end, *a woman sacrifice her life for the sake of others if she would be sacrificed for their satisfaction, it is not called as Sacrifice rather it is called as assassination or an openly murder* ..!!