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Kehtay hai taleem insan ko tameez seekhati hai, mgr kahin bar kuch log kitni he taleem hasil karlainn wo tameez ka tay* bhe nh seekh patay. agr galti sy wo tameez seekh bhe lain to wo tahzeeb ko bhula dytay hai. bas yahen haal kuch humray mashray ka horha hai. taleem to achi si achi hasil karhy hai mgr tameez aur tahzeeb bhulatay ja rhy hai. koi bhe shakhs kisi baray idaray sy taleem hasil karlain phir dekhaiye wo khud ko bara insan smjh kr dusron ko apny say kamtarr kaisay smjhnay lagta h. unk pas taleem to hogi hai degree to hoti hai mgr aqal kam hujati hai. kaisay? ab ap khud he dekh lai aj kal k designers ko lakho ruppy k kapray design kartay hai mgr lagta hai jaisay kisi pouchnaay(jahropoucha) ki chindi utha kr design ki hai. models pehn kr jab walk krti hai to lagta hai insay zaida kapron ki zarort kisi ko nh. abhi haal he honay wali kapron ki sale par toti hui khawateen to apny dekhi he hogi wo koi aanparh khawateen nh thi. wo taleemyafta khawateen thi jo brand k peechay aisay ek dusry ko maar rahi thi jaisay ghr mai khanay sy zaida kapron ki qilat hu. rashan ki taqseem mai gareebon ki dhakamphail to suna tha. mgr jaisay jaisay humray darzi ops sorry designers market mai pouchnaay jaisi chindiyaa brand mai laa rhay hai waisay waissy khawateen ko poucha numa kapray khareednay ka shouq bharta ja rha hai. chlao kisi tarah to pouchay sy lagao hua. jaisy jaisy insan koo oucha maqam hasil krta ja rha h waisy he uski aqal usk qadmon mai ati ja rhi hai. ab ap koi bhe film utha kr dekh lai apni tahzeeb bhula kr india ki tahzeeb apnanatay hui items song dalay ja rhy hai. saans bahu gopi bahu ahem jee ko dekh dekh kr ab pakistan mai b ek adat mazlom aurat aur do àdatt mard k gird ghumti hui kahanai k siwa koi aisi kahani nazar sy nh guzarti jismai koi sabaq hu siwae talaq shaddi jaissy humry mashray mai isy bhar kr koi dusra issue nh hu. ek saal pehlay honay wala waqaiye to sb ko yad he hoga jab mohabbat mai nakami k baad do school kay larka larki nay ek dusray ko goli mar kr apni zindagi khatam krli.. yah dramao filmo ka asar nh tha to phir kia tha? jo umer unki parhnay wli thi usmai wo is tarah ki souch rakhtay thay..jo unkay khaatoot say he wazaiy karha hai k humray mashray ka bacha taleem to hasil krha hai mgr tarbiyat mai koi kami reh rhi.. yah phir tahzeeb sy ussay dur krdia ja rha hai.. yah souch ek dam mashray mai nh ati banai jati hai. Loug 200 rupay ki kitab khareedtay waqt hazar bar souchtay hai mgr 500 rp ka movie ka ticket khareedty wqt ek br bhe nh. qk ab unhe b adat hogahe hai poucha numa kapray pehnti aurton ko dance karty dekhnay ki. to phir mai q na kahu taleem to hai tahzeeb nh. subah sy ghr sy nikala baap do do nokari kr k rat mai ghr mai ghusta hu. chota mota ghr ka kharcha chalati maa mehnat sy kam paison mai kapray siti hu.. 50, 60 hazar university ki fees ada kertay bàap sy kharchay k liya paisa mangta beita apni gf k liya tohfa khareedta ho , ghr ki izzat beiti ko maa parhanay k liya mashray ki buri nazar sy bachanay k lia duae parh kr chadar mai ruksat krti hu. wohe beiti kisi namehram k sth date par jati hu, to phir mai kaisay naa kahu taleem to hai mgr tahzeeb nh. maabaap baray khoon pasinaay ki kaamai sy bacho ko parhanay bjhtay hai aala sy aala taleem hasil karwanay bjhtay hai. unk liya din rat mehnat krty ho mgr tarbiyat k liya thura b wqt naa hu. mohabbat k liya tarasata bacha phir galat rastay ki janib bhartay hui dusron mai mohabbat talash nhe karega to phir kia karega ? maabaap ka farz banta hai wo unhe taleem kay sath sath unki tarbiyat pr bhe tawaju dai. kyun kay wo taleem to achi day mgr tarbiyat m koi kami reh jai to phr taleem sari bekaar hujti hai .. engineer doctor lawyer anchor surgeon ban jai. Mgr tahzeeb na hu to aisi degree koray kagahz k siwa kuch nh aj kal sheshay ka bhe rujhaan bharta ja raha hai , nojawan shouq aur kbhi kbhi takleef ghum dukh dard main peetay hain jis say unhe suloon hasil hota ha to kuchko fashion smjh k peetay hain hazaron rupay kharch kr k ya smjhty sheeshaa unhe zindagi ka sukon dyta hai mgr jantay nh k sheesha kitna nuqsaan dah hai. jo inhe thuri dair ka sukon to dyta h mgr unki sehat k liya kitna bura hai. inhe thuray sy paison ki kitab khareed kr k parh lai to shayad inhe sukoon ky sath sath zindagi ka koi sabaq hasil hujai ....