SOCIAL MEDIA

             

Aj kay dur main social media ek aisi taqqat ban gaya hai jis say puri duniya ko hilaya ja sakta hai. Chand seconds main he ek konay sy dusray konay khabar pouchan jati hai. Ek aam insan koi bhe aisi cheez jis sy loug uski taraf matawaju hotay ho social media pr daal ker mashoor hoskta hai. Chahay wo achay main ya buray. Maazi main kuch saalon sy yahe dekhnay main aya hai social media ki awaam jisko chahay hero bana day aur jisko chahy zero. Yahan dono he bantay zara bhe waqt nahi lagta.. haal he main raato raato mashoor honay wala chai wala to sab he ko yaad hoga. Islamabad main ek larki nay uski picture social media pr dali aur wo is qadar kahin dino tak social media ki zeenat bani rehi k usnay Pakistan sy bahir bhe apna jadu jaygaya. Isi tarah coke studio main Rahat Fateh Ali khan kay sath Afreen Afreen gaana ganay wali Momina Mustehan bhe social media pr chand dino main itna mashor hui k unkay followers ki tadad hazaro sy lakho tak pouch gayae. Par jab unkay dusray ganay ai to unhe tanqeed ka bhe nishana banaya gaya. Isi tarah social media par ek aam si video dalnay par dhoom machanay walay sabzi wala bhe koi bhula nhe sakta k jiski awaaz nay logon ko apni taraf keecha aur kuch he dino main wo tv channels pr mehman e khasosi tha. Do jorwa behanian justin b ka gana ga kr is qdar maqbol hui k unhe rozgaar bhe mil gaya. Social media pr kahin loug mashor huye aur unhe faida hua par wahin kahin aisy bhe loug hain jo social media pr mashor to huye pr unhe tanqeed ka nishana bana kr unka mazaq banaya gaya to kahin bar unhe buray buray lafzon sy nawaza gaya un par kahin comics banai gayae. Jin main Ramzaan main ana wala ek add tha jiska dialogue itna maqbol hua k har shakhs ki zuban pr kahin dino tk wo chara tha "excuse me ap bhe? Phr bhe wo usny is tarah k ads banana nh choray. Naa he us admi ko tanqeed ka koi asar hua. Wahin dusri taraf Eye to eye par muqboliyat panay walay Tahir shah ko bhe khub nishana banaya gaya. Phir bhe unhonay apna dusra son Angel release kia to sarhad par India tak main uska asar dekha gaya. Logo ny apni souch ka izhar kia jismain bharti artists nay us p video banai to kisi nay Twitter pr Kashmir ko mazu banatay huye Pakistan k hawalay karnay ka kaha. Isi tarh Ramzan main Qandeel baloch ki videos nay social media pr ek naye behas chir di thi. Par unhony apni video banana jari rakhi aur Apny he Bhai k hatho Qatil krdi gae. Social media wahin kahin Logo ko asan tareen maqboliyat ka platform faharam karaha hai wahin kahin ek sawal bhe chor raha hai kia mehnat kr k kuch Hasil karnay walo ko social media pr ana lazmi h. ? Jo loug kahin saalon ki mehnat k baad bhe wo izzat wo shourat hasil nhe kar patay wo chand he seconds main kuch bhe kar k maqbol hujai to asal mehnti insan aur uska talent kahin chupp kr reh jata hai? Kiya khud ko manwanay k lie social media pr logo ko dekhna zarori hai??? Kya hume apny salahiyaton ko dikhane k liye social media ka sahara lena parega?

   

   

Bat sari ye h k ab iska hmari society me trend chal gya h jo boht tezi k sath phel raha hai. Log time pass krne k liye social media istemal krte hain sbne isko apni zindagi ka hissa bnalia hai. Har cheez k do pehlun hote hain aik positive or dosra negative. Isi trha social media b  boht sare faide hain lkn agr iska istemal had sy ziada barh jaye tw wo humare liye nuqasandy hoskta hai aur horha hai.

Log khud ko mashor krne k liye social media ka sahara lete hain qk unko koi idara chance nh deta r social media aisa platform hai jahan kisi b chez ki koi pabandi nhi or log nayi r dilchasp chezen dekhne k liye social media use krte hain phr usko like aur share b krte hain.

Social media aisa platform h jisky zariye log apas me asani sy bat krskte hain aur informative cheez share kr k dosro tk pohncha skte hain lekn yahan boht log iska ghlt faida uthate hain. Ajeeb pictures videos share krte hain jisme hmari society per bura asar par rha hai r log achi chezon k bjaye in sb chezo me involve horhy hain.Logo ko chahye k is platform ka sahi istemal kren r is sy apna nuqsan krne k bajaye aise koi kam kre jis sy khud ko r hmari society r society k logo ko faida pohnch ske or aise logo ko famous hona chahye jinme waqi koi qabilyat or koi hunar ho.

         

                

Shopaholic

With the passage of time and the speedy globalization, sharing of thoughts and cultures is now very common every new thing which comes in the market attracts lots of people, everyone wants to look attractive and different from others and for this, people tries to get every new thing first before anyone else get it this trend of being unique and different from others is making people shopaholic a term used for people who are shopping addicted. The globalization is supporting the idea of being unique and trendy. Innovative ideas, branded accessories, stylish hand bags and classy shoes are driving people crazy.

  There is a race of having most expensive and stylish accessories which is now considered as a most important part of anyone's life. Newly coming designers and online shopping portals are encouraging the idea of being shopaholic by designing clothes which are eye catching and have branded labels on them. There is popular statement which we can hear from any shopaholic that "we are not shopaholic we only helping the economy". Shopping sometimes is helpful for decreasing depression and it can be a source of happiness.

Game of Death

Playing games in the childhood or even after growing up is natural and it is considered as the most important part of anyone's life, kids who don't play might have an abnormality in their growth but when any thing turns into the life threat it should not considered as a form of entertainment.
Nowadays we can see teenagers boys riding their bikes in full speed and overtaking other vehicles did not think of hazards they are putting their life in, also a life threatening game which is so common in every city specially in the biggest city which is called the 'City of light' Karachi. Motorcyclists can be found displaying their dangerous stunts on busy roads of Pakistan without taking even basic precautionary measures like wearing a helmet. These bikers run through the streets on occasions like the eve of Independence Day, New Year, Eid, Shab-e-Baraat and many others. We now see the same bikers carrying out their stunts in different rallies and protests. We regularly read and hear news about accidents caused by these one wheelers. Not only do they put their own life in danger, they endanger those of others as well. These dare devils can be seen in busy roads doing different stunts like lying flat on their bikes while bike is in full speed, riding bikes on back wheel they usually have bikes without the silencers and riding bikes without gripping handles and many more without even having basic safety measures. This type of stunts already took many lives and left their families in deep shock. One wheeling is the sport which is started in US, UK and Japan they considered it as a form of uni-cycling, bi-cycling and tri-cycling  it is always practiced there with full safety measures and never practiced openly like in Pakistan on the busy roads. Although, there were policemen on the roads  but they are able to find enough space for their stunt.

 We have so many rules and regulations which should be practiced to stop this "Game of death" also is the responsibility of parents to keep an eye on their growing up boys and also aware them about the hazard of one wheeling and other sports of this type so that the future generation will stay away from this game.

Ramazan aur media

Media ny humain jahn duniya sy bakhabr kia hai aur is k zariye hum duniya main hony waly haalat o waqiyat ka hr lamha sy ahgha rehty hain . Neiz k aj k dour main media ny hmain bht sari saholiyat farham ki hain aur ab hmary society ka 4th pilar media smjha jata hai wahin media ky kuch manfi asarat bhi murtib jis main ramazan transmission majuda dour ka sb sy bara fitna hai .
Bazahir tou ramazan transmission mazahbi programmes lagty hain lakin yehi programmes ab mazhab k naam pr hamain deen sy dour krny ka sabab bn rhy hain . Jesy ky ramazan transmission k any sy phely log apna roza duain namazon aur tilawat e quran pak main guzara krty thy lakin jb sy yeh transmissions shuru howi hain logn ny apni ibadaton ko mukhtasir kr diya hai . Logn ki ab tarjeeh aur tawajha ibatadat krny sy ziyada in transmissions ko dekhny aur in main shirkat krny main barh gai hain. Ab aesa koi news channel ya entertainment show ni jis pr ramazan transmission ni atin. Islam k naam pr programmes kr k asal main tou profit kamaya ja rha hai jis ka inkeshaaf Mubashir Luqman ny 30 may ko apny program kara sach main kia k media channels in ramazan shows k naam pr croreoun rupay kama rhy hain .Mubashir Luqman k mutabiq guzishta saal Geo aur Ary ny 40 crore rupay ka profit kia jb k Hum Tv ny 20-25 crore , Urdu 1 ny 20 crore , Samaa Tv ny 16 crore , Duniya news ny 14 crore , Express news ny 12 crore , Aplus ny 10-12 crore aur baqi channels ny 4-5 crore hr channel ny profit kamaya hai. Jahn media ko itna profit hota hai wahi awam ky bhi ramazan main mazy ajaty hain q in transmissions k sponsors programs main logn ko gifts dyty hain aur hmari awam aik choty sy Q-mobile aur bike hasil krny k liye itna pagal ho jaty hain k agr host unsy mazhika kheiz sawal b pouch lain tou unhy bura ni lgta log in mamoli cheezon ko hasil krny k liye apni izaat e nafas tk ka khayal ni krty . Yeh sb dekh kr mjh tou yeh lgta hai k log ab ramazan ka sara saal intezar in hi programmes k liye krty hain . Ghar pr bethy hwi awam bhi is be izzati ko hoty dekh kr hans rhy hoty hain . Jo host jitni behuda harkat krta hai uski rating utni hi ziyada hoti chali jati hain ...15 ramazan k baad sy host kehna shuru ho jaty hain k hm thaak jaty hain itny lambi transmission kr k lakin apny face sy awam pr zahir ni hony dyty .. Arey tou kis ny kha hai k itni lambi transmissions karo lakin 5.5 crore jo hr host ko diye jaty hain woh bi tou timing kaam hny sy kaam ho jain gy.
Hmara media aur awam yeh q ni sochty k yeh transmissions duniya bhar main dekhi jati hain aur mumalik ky logn pr kia taasur prta hoga Pakistani awam ka? Lihaza ramazan transmissions ko 6-7 ghanton sy kaam kr k 2-3 ganton pr kia jana chahiye jis main sirf deen sy mutaliq guftu ki jaye aur logn ko deeni masail sy ahgha kia jaye .😃😊😃

Tagiuraat e zamana

Dost ny kha k phely zamany k log kitny achy hwa krty thy kitna adaab lihaz tha un main hr aik ki izzat krty thy air kisi baat ka bura b ni many thy .
Phr main ny is baat pr jb gour kia k aj k zamany k log itny muqtalif q hain tou is sawaal ka jawab yehi samjh aya k aj aksar kaam umar log hr baat pr apny sy bary logn pr tanqeed kr rhy hoty hain aur parents b unki han main han mila rhy hoty hain jb k agr phely k zamany main bachn ki majal ni hoti thi k woh apny sy bary logn ko jawab dain q k waldain bachn ko foran tok diya krty thy . Phely k zamany main waldain bachon k samny kisi ki burai krty hi ni thy us zamany k log sirf achaiyn ko dekha krty thy . Jesy k aik mashoor qoul hai k

Phely k log jb kisi main koi burai dekhty thy tou usko akely main nasihaat krty thy aur achai dekhty thythy tou  SB k samny bayaan krty thy. Lakin afsoos k ab is k ulaat hota hai jb tk log burai ko 10 logn k samny na bolain unhy sukoon ni milta aur achai pr SB aesy chup ho jaty hain jesy k sanap sohng gya ho ya phir aesy bury scandal bna diye jaty hain k us insan ki achai daab jaye aur yehi tou hmary mashry ky bigarh ka sabab bn gaya hai 

Phely k zamany main log insanon sy pyar krty thy cheezon sy ni logn k dilon main aik dosry k liye mohabat aur hamdardana jazbat hwa krty thy woh cheezon ko mil bat kr istemal kr liya krty thy aik dosry k ehsasat ki qadr krty thy woh log jb k jb log insanon sy ziyada cheezon sy pyaar krty hain isi liye tou aik dosry ki izzat krna ab kaam ho gya logn main adab lihaz ni rha jb k yeah baat tou phely hi hazrat Ali ny bta di thi k

Log aik dosry sy isi liye ab milna b pasand ni krty  hain  ya  dosrn ko hatl imkan nuqsan pohchany ki kosish krty hain is main waldain ka bhi kahin na kahin qusor hai k woh apny bachn ko bachpan sy hi ab baroun ki respect krna ni sikhaty phely agr bary bachn ki koi galat baat ya harkhat dekhty thy tou foran tok dia krty thy aur parents b bachon ko rok diya krty thy lakin ab mamla bilkul ulta ho gya hai k agr koi bara bachn ko kuch boly b tou waldain bolty hain k apny hamary bachy ko galat q kha ya toka q lakin jb baad main bachy bigrh jaty hain tou bolty hain k hmary bachy tou sunty hi ni balky ulta jawab dyty hain tou bachy jo dekhty hain wohi toh woh krty hain jb apko woh baroun k samny bolty dekhain gy tou woh b ap k samny bolain gy .

Phely zamany ky log bhi hamari tarhan hi thy woh b meti sy paida hwy thy aur hm bhe bas farq aj hmary rawiyn main agya hai isi liye tou ab k zamany aur pechly zamany k logn main itna farq agya hai . Main sochti hn k aj jb hasad main log aik dosry sy milty ni hain tou najany any waly zamany main log tou tanha zindagi guzarny main hi afiyaat smjha karain gy lakin  phir yeh sawal bhi paida hota hai k tanha zindagi guzry gi kesy ? 😒

90's- The Golden Era.

Jaisay jaisay duniya taizi sy tareeqi ki janib jati ja rahi hai waisy he insan ki zindagi main roz ba roz tabdili ati jarhi hai kehtay hain insan ko waqt kay sath badalna parta hai aur duniya k sath chalna parta hai warna wo peechay reh jata hai.. technology nay jis taizi sy insan ko apni taraf keencha aur jagra hai usy insan bahir ana bhe chahay to nahi aaskta. Chahay bacha ho nojawan ho ya burrha har insan iskay jaal main phansa nazar ata hai. Technology nay wahin kahin logo ki zindagi asan ki hai aur dur darz logon say rabta k lye asani paida ki hai wahin kahin apny ird gird majod logo ko dur aur tanha bana dia hai. Hum chaltay hain 80's 90's kay us khubsurat durr main jis sy kahin logo ki yaadain wabasta hain wo khubsurat durr jo ab phir kabhi lout kar nahi aiga.

Pakistani television

Ptv kay wo khubsurat dramay jinkay naam sun kar jee aisa machalta hai kay unhe ek bar phir dekhnay ko dil chahata hai. Behudgi say paak aur family kay sath baith kar dekh walay wo dramay thy jin main rishto ka lehaz ahtaram aur koi sabaq majod hota tha. Yah wo dur tha jismain wo chehray samnay ai jin main beintiha talent majod tha jo apni lagan aur musalsal mehnat kay baad legends kehalai. Chahay woh bacho ka pasandega ainak wala jin ho yah nojawanon buzurgo main behad muqbol drama Khuda ki basti , agaan taira ho. In Ptv kay dramaon main kaam karnay walay adakaro nay jo khubsrat dur Pakistan ko dia ab wo lout kar phir kabi nh asakta.

Ptv nay naa sirf adakaar die balkay Humain khubsurat awaazain bhe di jinko suntay he har insan jhoom utha to koi kahin khoo jata jinki meethas say bhari awaz nay dusray mulk bhe apna jado chalaya jismain baray naam Nazia Hassan Nushat Fateh Ali Khan Rishma shamil hain. Atif Aslam Ali zafar shahzad Roy Aur Junaid Jamshed Jawwad bhe us sehnaray durr ka hisa rehay hain jab Ptv kay baad degar channels nay Jaga banai aur loug CDs khared kar Shouq sy Inko suna kartay thay. Wahin Umer shareef Ka maqbool tareen stage show tha jsmain comedy kay sath sath un cheezon ko mozu banaya jata tha kay jinki us wqt kay logo ko zarorat thi. Alfaz ka chunao is tarah kia jata kay tanqeed ki tanqeed hojati aur Comedy ki comedy. Par in sab ki jaga naye dur kay naye andaz say banay tv shows nay layli Jismain kahin channels say kahin qism kay dramay , singers kay lie Signing shows , aur stage show ki jaga comedy shows shuru krdie. Par un main wo baat kahin mehsos nh hoti jo us wqt k dur main thi. Ab social media apna talent dikhnay ka asan zariyae to banta ja raha hai pr kahin na kahin insan k ander majod creativity ko khtm karta chala jaraha hai jo ab digital art main tabdeel hogae hai. Kahin ghanto ka saboq amoz aur hans hans kr lot pot kardyny walay show ab social media pr chand minutes ki video main badal to gaye hai par ab family k sth ek mahol bana kr tv dekhnay walay wo kamra ab kahin dikhai nh dayta ab aisay comedy dikhai dytay hain jin main behudgi ko comedy bana kr yah kuch puranay chutkulay suna kr unhe comedy kaha janay laga hai.
Jab insan bacha hota hai to yah wohe waqt hota hai k wo ander majod Apni salahiyat ko ubharta hai. 90'.s ka woh dur jab bachay parks main ja kr apny doston kay sath khela koda karty thay. Pakram pakarai chocolate chocolate pel doojh kanchay chocho aur bht say aisay khel jis sy jismani warzish aur thaakan dur hoti thi. Us dur main is tarh kay khilonay hotay thay kay jis say wo kuch seekhtay aur smjhtay thay par ab kay dur main unhain sirf mobile chaye hota hai. Maa baap bachy ko choti umer say he hath main mobile pakar daytay hain usko us par games ka itna shouqeen bana daytay hain kay jab ao aadi ban jai to usko uski adat churanay ki koshish kartay hain lakin jab wo kamiyab nh ho patay to wo iska zimdar bachon ko theratay hain. Wo dur jab chutiyan atay he maabaap nonihaal laa kar daytay jis sy bacha parh kr choti choti kahanio sy sabaq hasil karta woh ab khatam hochuka. Jis say uski angraizi aur urdu behtar hoti par aj kal k dur main bacha mobile main din bhar apny doston ko chatting k sth chatting karta dikhai dayta hai jis say kuch bhe hasil honay k bajai waqt ka ziya hota hai.

Cartoons 90's ka wo dur jis main cartoons main bihayai majood nh thi. Chahy bacha ho ya bara sab he shouq sy dekhtay thay tom and jerry us wqt ka maqbool tareen cartoon tha. Bob the bulider powerpuff girls scooby do dragon tales yah wo tamam cartoons thay jinhonay 90's ko naa sirf khusburat banaya balkay unhe yaadgar bhe bana dia. Ab k dur kay cartoons agr hum utha kr dekhain to usmain baqaidi sy behudgi nazar ati hain jin sy humri nasalon par galat asar par raha hai. 90;s ka wo dur kabhi bhulaya nh ja sakta. Ub har insan khush ho kr bhe khush dekhai nh dayta. Restaurants nay khadano main dawaton ki jaga cheen li. Wo mohabbt aur pyar sy banaya janay wala khana ab loug restaurant main khilana pasand kartay hain. Get together gharon main karnay k bajai kisi mall main karna pasand kartay hain apnon sy milnay julnay k bajai text/call krna pasand kartay hain. Eid yah koi bhe tehwaar par apny rishtaydaron k ghr janay k bajai hum naye kapray pehan kar ghar main sona pasand kartay hain. Agr hum ghoor karn to hum sbki zindgai main bht badalo aya hai mohabbat khatm to nh par duriyan zarore agae hain. Humain apno ka haal tk pata nh hota. Hum gheron sy miltay hain un main apnay talash kartay hain par apno ki taraf nazar utha kr dekhtay tak nahi. Kia hum agay bharnay ki dur main khud ko peechay chor baithay hain? Yah kahin khoo baithay hain

90's Media :
us dour aur aj kay dour kay media(electronic) ko agr hum dekhain to dono main waziye farq dekhai dayta hai. tv par atay advertisment main jahan tabdali ai wahin news channels main khabarain parhtay anchors ka bhe andaz , tareeqa aur libas badla. PTV ka 9 bjay ka ahim khabarnama jiska intizar loug bht besbari say kartay thay ab har ghantay baad humain news channels main dekhai dayta hai. naa sirf khabarnaama balkay har choti si choti khabar humain breaking news banti dekahi dayti hai. chahay woh print media ho ya phir electronic media dono main hi ads ziada dikhai daytya hain... ab ad's main bhe itni tabdeeli ai hai kay un main apny products ko bechany k liye hero herion ka sahara lay kr unhe behudgi ka rang dia jata hai. chahay wo kisi mobile company ka ads ho ya phir tooth paste ka.. jab kay pehaly k dur main aisa kuch bhe nahi tha,, anchor sar par dopatta ourh kr khabrain parhti thin par ab bina dopttay ki anchors ki demand hogae hai.. jintni ziada behaiyi utni he ziada rating..anchors ki us wqt baqaida training ki jati thi kay kis tarah kharabian parhni hai... kis tarah ka dheema lehjra rakhna hai pr ab to sirf "hum apko sabsy pehaly khabar day rahy hai" cheekhti hui ziada aur khabar kam dekhai dayti hai..... ab apko khubsurat aur bold hona lazmi hai... agrr ap khubsurat hai to apki job pakki.. agr ap talented hain apkay pas knowledge par ap ap khubsurat nhe, apk apna doppta sar say utar nah sakhti aur kaway ki tarah kai kai nhe karskti to sorry janab apk ek news anchor banay k laiq nhe..!!!

Honor Killing

Men and women are two wheels of a cart, if one is disable other will be of no use. Women is a vital part of any society. We live in a male dominating society where mistakes and sins of  men can be  forgivable but for women there are different laws.  If she commits sins she has no right to live. The word “honor  killing” which is also termed as vengeance , avenging ,  Karo kari and siyaa kari ,is treated as a murder under  so called Pakistan’s penal code. There are many types of Honor killing. Women gives compensation of the sins of her male sins, killing of  women on the grounds of morality and conduct by their own father, brother, and husband. According to a report from human right commission in 2014 more than 3000 women and in 2015 more than 1100 women were died in so called honor killing.

In 1999 Samia Sarwar was shot dead in honor killing in her lawyer’s office. She was a married  with her 1^st cousin with two children. Samia filed for divorce and claimed martial abuse. Her parents were against of her decision. She was eloped with an Army officer Nadir Mirza. Her parents felt shamed upon the family by eloping with a lover. Samia also sought the help of the Lahore-based sisters Asma Jahagir and Hina Jillani who are well known left wings feminist and lawyers. Samia’s  family planned her murder Samia’s  mother agree her to meet in a the lawyer’s office . her mother came with a strange men and as Samia entered the room that man pulled out his gun and shot samia dead.

 Ayman Udas , pakhtun singer was shot to death in her apartment apparently by her own two brothers.  According to a news stort in daily times, Aymen Udas’s husband Usman Udas reported at Paharipura Police station that her brothers were not happy with her having singing profession despite their disapproval. They allegedly opened fire on her near Koochi Plaza and killed her.  Her family believed it was sinful for a woman to perform on television. Ashamed of her growing popularity her two brothers killed her  for breaking family tradition and also by marrying for the second time.

Recently  popular social media celebrity  Qandeel Baloach was assassinated by her own brother Waseem  in her home town Multan on 15 july 2016 in honor killing . her fame was based on social media posts, pictures and videos. Her real name was Faizia Azeem. She got married at the age of 17 in 2008 and had ason. She left her husband by saying  he was abusive. Her brother waseem  felt no regret and confessed Due to her sensational and controversial videos on social media and Mufti Abdul Qavi incident , he killed  her in the house where her parents lives, in Multan. He said he’s proud to killed his sister and girls are born to stay home. In a statement Qandeel’s brother said “ I am  proud of what I did. I drugged her first, then I killed her. She was bringing dishonor to our family”. Another recent case of  Samia Shahid, when she visited her family in Punjab and being raped and killed by her father and ex- husband because she left her 1^st husband to marry  Syed Mukhtar Kazam.

The question raised why? Because she wanted her life on her own terms? It’s a big question mark for us. Is this a Islamic state where our religion gives equal rights for man and women. A man killed his wife and said she had relations with other man and he is not ashamed of what he has done.  After  murder with brutality of their own daughter, sisters and wives they  are not even ashamed for their cruel act. Women are callously killed in the name of honor if they go against the will of their families in any way.

There is no honor in killing. No one is permitted to take the life of others  because of their honor in any circumstances. Women are human not possessions.  There is no force is our religion. Islam forbids to force anyone. But our society does not accept women’s rights. Our society just remembers the words of their  meaning. Indeed the laws are made for women but there is no implementation on it.  Women’s protection is very important.  They are very crucial part of our society. Like men women must have the right of freedom of speech.  But unfortunately  literate segment also denies with the fact. Still in areas where tribal culture is following, still they killed their daughter, sisters and wives in the name of honor. This is not only the duty of our government but also the people of society, to accept the fact and importance of women.  

Gussa(anger)

Nayi chamakti hui gari per jab unho ne apnai betai ko pathar se kuch likhtai hye dekha to ghussai mein danda zor se us k hath pe mara,or martai hi wo zaaro qataar rone laga,hospital lekr gaye to doc ko majburan ungliyan katni parin,Us ne jb apni gari pe I Love u papa likha hua dekha to sharmidagi k ehsas k ilawa kuch nhn tha,

Allah ne hm insaano ko Muhabbat,nafrat, pasand napasnd, khauf, khushi, gham, gussa or iis k ilawa buhat se ehsasat k sth paida kya jin mein ek ehssas hai gussa,(Or isi gussai k ba'is ek baap hmesha isi pachtawai mein rahai ga k bachaii ne hmesha k lye apnii uglyan khoo din), Gussa hum mein se har ek mein mojood hai phir chahai wo mard or ho ya ourat, kamzoor ho ya taqatwar, afsar ho ya mataihait, ustad ho ya shgird gharz ye k is se koi bhii khalii nazar nhn aega....

Haddes-e-mubarka hai k..

"Gussa shaitan ki taraf se ata hai,or shaitan ko aag se paida kya gya hai,aag ka ilaj panii hai or isii tarah gussai ka ilaj wazu hai"..

Insaan k sth har waqt ek dushman rehta hai or wo hai us ka apna gussa qk ye gussa shitan ki tarf se ata haii or shaitan hmara sb se bara shadeed dushman hai, Jo Insaan gussai mein apni zaban or hathoon ko qabo krna nhn janta usai apni hi tabahii k lye dushman ki zarorat nhn...

Lakin aj kal hmarai muashrai mein log gussai mein eent ka jawab pathar se dena bahaduri smjhtai hain. 

jb hmen gussa ata hai to hmaraii pas 3options mojood hotaii hain.

1 foran gussai ka bharpoor jawab dain.

2 waqt ane per badla lai.

3 khamosh reh kr sabar krlay or gussa pee kr zyadti ko maaf krden.

Lakin is 3rd option ko hm buzdilii or shikast smajhtaii hain or ye smjhtai hain gussa krne se hm samne walai pe apna roob jama sktai hai.. 

Hazrat abu huraira(raziAllahtalaanho) se rewayat hai k rasool Allah (sallalahoaliahiwassalam) ne farmaya: "Bahadur wo nhn jo logon ko pecharain bal k bahadur wo hai jo gussai k waqt apne nafs per qabu rakhain" "apni zaban ko qabo mein rakho,apnai ghar mein(fazol na phiron) or apnai gunahon per royA kro"..

Ye such hai k hum yaha is dunya mein Allah ko mutasir(raazi) krne aye hain naa k us bandon ko. Lakin Allah to har insaan k dilon mein basta hai to kya kbhi hm ne soucha k amoman hm apne gussai se usi dil ko kis had dukhatain hain apnai gussai k halat mein

(HUM APNI GHALTYON K BEHETREEN WAKEEL OR DUSRON KI GHLTYON K LYE BEHETREEN jUDGE HAIN)  

Agar kisi shaks ne ap k sth kuch bura kya,dhoka dya, jhoot bhola ho ya, ap per zilum kya ho to hm maafi to door ki bt hai gussai me na jane kya kya bol detai hain usaii, kbhii soucha hai apne k raat din mustaqil hum Allah ki kitnii nafarmanii krtai hain us k haq ko pura krne se ghafil rehtai hain or na jane kitnii hi ghltyan krtain hain lakin is k bawajood Allah ne hmein apni rehmaton se kbhii mehroom nhn kya or hmesha apne hifz-o-aman mein rakha Alhamdulillah,Isi tarah hum Allah k bandoon ko maaf krne ki salahyat kiun nhn raktain? Q hum apnai sarai wadain toor kr gussai mein unhain chor jatai hain? Q hmen uski sari achayan bhol kr sirf brayian hi nazar ane lgtii hain??

Qayamat k din hum Allah se apnai kitnai hi gunahoon ko maaf krdya jane ki khuahish raktain hain.Isi lye hmein cahye k logo ko maaf kr k apna dil saaf rakhain or un se maafi mangai jin ka hm ne kbhi dil dukhaya ho maafi mangne se koi chota ya bara nhn hojata..

Gussa ek keel k manind hota hai jese ek jagah pe hum keel thok kr usai nikal bhii dain to wo jagah khalii hi rahe gi isi tarah gussai mein niklai hye alfaz samne walai k dil mein keel thoknai ka kam krta hai... or fakhar se btatai hain k (mjhe to buhat gussa ata hai,me gussai ki/ka buhat taiz hun,mene falah ko gussai mein buhat sunaya etc etc)

"gussa tanha ata hai or jatai apki aqal,zaban,iklaqyat or shakhsiyat ki khobsorti ko le jata "

humein chye k hum logo k lye keel na bnen or maaf krne k adat zyada se zyada apna lain ta k hum dunya or akhirat dono mein sukoon se reh sakain...