Nayi chamakti hui gari per jab unho ne
apnai betai ko pathar se kuch likhtai hye dekha to ghussai mein danda zor se us
k hath pe mara,or martai hi wo zaaro qataar rone laga,hospital lekr gaye to doc
ko majburan ungliyan katni parin,Us ne jb apni gari pe I Love u papa likha hua
dekha to sharmidagi k ehsas k ilawa kuch nhn tha,
Allah ne hm insaano ko
Muhabbat,nafrat, pasand napasnd, khauf, khushi, gham, gussa or iis k ilawa buhat se
ehsasat k sth paida kya jin mein ek ehssas hai gussa,(Or isi gussai k ba'is ek
baap hmesha isi pachtawai mein rahai ga k bachaii ne hmesha k lye apnii uglyan
khoo din), Gussa hum mein se har ek mein mojood hai phir chahai wo mard or ho ya
ourat, kamzoor ho ya taqatwar, afsar ho ya mataihait, ustad ho ya shgird gharz ye
k is se koi bhii khalii nazar nhn aega....
Haddes-e-mubarka hai k..
"Gussa shaitan ki taraf se ata hai,or
shaitan ko aag se paida kya gya hai,aag ka ilaj panii hai or isii tarah gussai
ka ilaj wazu hai"..
Insaan k sth har waqt ek dushman rehta hai
or wo hai us ka apna gussa qk ye gussa shitan ki tarf se ata haii or shaitan
hmara sb se bara shadeed dushman hai, Jo Insaan gussai mein apni zaban or hathoon ko
qabo krna nhn janta usai apni hi tabahii k lye dushman ki zarorat nhn...
Lakin aj kal hmarai muashrai mein log gussai
mein eent ka jawab pathar se dena bahaduri smjhtai hain.
jb hmen gussa ata hai
to hmaraii pas 3options mojood hotaii hain.
1 foran gussai ka bharpoor jawab dain.
2 waqt ane per badla lai.
3 khamosh reh kr sabar krlay or gussa pee
kr zyadti ko maaf krden.
Lakin is 3rd option ko hm buzdilii or
shikast smajhtaii hain or ye smjhtai hain gussa krne se hm samne walai pe apna
roob jama sktai hai..
Hazrat abu huraira(raziAllahtalaanho) se rewayat hai k
rasool Allah (sallalahoaliahiwassalam) ne farmaya: "Bahadur wo nhn jo
logon ko pecharain bal k bahadur wo hai jo gussai k waqt apne nafs per qabu rakhain"
"apni zaban ko qabo mein rakho,apnai ghar mein(fazol na phiron) or apnai
gunahon per royA kro"..
Ye such hai k hum yaha is dunya mein Allah ko
mutasir(raazi) krne aye hain naa k us bandon ko. Lakin Allah to har insaan k dilon mein
basta hai to kya kbhi hm ne soucha k amoman hm apne gussai se usi dil ko kis
had dukhatain hain apnai gussai k halat mein
(HUM APNI GHALTYON K BEHETREEN WAKEEL OR
DUSRON KI GHLTYON K LYE BEHETREEN jUDGE HAIN)
Agar
kisi shaks ne ap k sth kuch bura kya,dhoka dya, jhoot bhola ho ya, ap per zilum
kya ho to hm maafi to door ki bt hai gussai me na jane kya kya bol detai hain
usaii, kbhii soucha hai apne k raat din mustaqil hum Allah ki kitnii nafarmanii krtai hain us
k haq ko pura krne se ghafil rehtai hain or na jane kitnii hi ghltyan krtain
hain lakin is k bawajood Allah ne hmein apni rehmaton se kbhii mehroom nhn kya
or hmesha apne hifz-o-aman mein rakha Alhamdulillah,Isi tarah hum Allah k
bandoon ko maaf krne ki salahyat kiun nhn raktain? Q hum apnai sarai wadain
toor kr gussai mein unhain chor jatai hain? Q hmen uski sari achayan bhol kr
sirf brayian hi nazar ane lgtii hain??
Qayamat k din hum Allah se apnai kitnai hi
gunahoon ko maaf krdya jane ki khuahish raktain hain.Isi lye hmein cahye k logo ko maaf kr k apna dil saaf rakhain or un se maafi mangai jin ka hm ne kbhi dil dukhaya ho maafi mangne se koi chota ya bara nhn hojata..
Gussa ek keel k manind hota hai jese ek
jagah pe hum keel thok kr usai nikal bhii dain to wo jagah khalii hi rahe gi
isi tarah gussai mein niklai hye alfaz samne walai k dil mein keel thoknai ka
kam krta hai... or fakhar se btatai hain k (mjhe to buhat gussa ata hai,me
gussai ki/ka buhat taiz hun,mene falah ko gussai mein buhat sunaya etc etc)
"gussa tanha ata hai or jatai apki aqal,zaban,iklaqyat or shakhsiyat ki khobsorti ko le jata "
humein chye k hum logo k lye keel na bnen or maaf krne k adat zyada se zyada apna lain ta k hum dunya or akhirat dono mein sukoon se reh sakain...
Bohat acha likha hai
ReplyDeleteGusa woh wahid haram chiz hai jis ko pena halal hai
Good👍
Shukrya laila.😍😊
DeletePretty good, its true actually holding onto anger is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die but eventually getting anger is actually punishing yourself with a mistake of others or with the controller society
ReplyDeleteThankyou sundus.😊
DeleteYes u r right.👌
Pretty good, its true actually holding onto anger is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die but eventually getting anger is actually punishing yourself with a mistake of others or with the controller society
ReplyDeleteGreat writer ur ��
ReplyDeleteALLAH tala tumhe agay laike jae ameen ��
Thankyou maham.😊
DeleteInshaAllah.
Thankyou maham.😊
DeleteInshaAllah.
Great writer ur ��
ReplyDeleteALLAH tala tumhe agay laike jae ameen ��
A very true....u have done a great job...keep it up ������
ReplyDeleteBhut khubsorat likha hai mashAllah <3 i am so proud at you :*
ReplyDeletethankyou Iqra :)
Deleteweldone ayesha nd Yes, Anger does'nt solve anything, it build nothing but it can destroy everhting.. :/
ReplyDeleteamazing work (y)
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