Gussa(anger)

Nayi chamakti hui gari per jab unho ne apnai betai ko pathar se kuch likhtai hye dekha to ghussai mein danda zor se us k hath pe mara,or martai hi wo zaaro qataar rone laga,hospital lekr gaye to doc ko majburan ungliyan katni parin,Us ne jb apni gari pe I Love u papa likha hua dekha to sharmidagi k ehsas k ilawa kuch nhn tha,

Allah ne hm insaano ko Muhabbat,nafrat, pasand napasnd, khauf, khushi, gham, gussa or iis k ilawa buhat se ehsasat k sth paida kya jin mein ek ehssas hai gussa,(Or isi gussai k ba'is ek baap hmesha isi pachtawai mein rahai ga k bachaii ne hmesha k lye apnii uglyan khoo din), Gussa hum mein se har ek mein mojood hai phir chahai wo mard or ho ya ourat, kamzoor ho ya taqatwar, afsar ho ya mataihait, ustad ho ya shgird gharz ye k is se koi bhii khalii nazar nhn aega....

Haddes-e-mubarka hai k..

"Gussa shaitan ki taraf se ata hai,or shaitan ko aag se paida kya gya hai,aag ka ilaj panii hai or isii tarah gussai ka ilaj wazu hai"..

Insaan k sth har waqt ek dushman rehta hai or wo hai us ka apna gussa qk ye gussa shitan ki tarf se ata haii or shaitan hmara sb se bara shadeed dushman hai, Jo Insaan gussai mein apni zaban or hathoon ko qabo krna nhn janta usai apni hi tabahii k lye dushman ki zarorat nhn...

Lakin aj kal hmarai muashrai mein log gussai mein eent ka jawab pathar se dena bahaduri smjhtai hain. 

jb hmen gussa ata hai to hmaraii pas 3options mojood hotaii hain.

1 foran gussai ka bharpoor jawab dain.

2 waqt ane per badla lai.

3 khamosh reh kr sabar krlay or gussa pee kr zyadti ko maaf krden.

Lakin is 3rd option ko hm buzdilii or shikast smajhtaii hain or ye smjhtai hain gussa krne se hm samne walai pe apna roob jama sktai hai.. 

Hazrat abu huraira(raziAllahtalaanho) se rewayat hai k rasool Allah (sallalahoaliahiwassalam) ne farmaya: "Bahadur wo nhn jo logon ko pecharain bal k bahadur wo hai jo gussai k waqt apne nafs per qabu rakhain" "apni zaban ko qabo mein rakho,apnai ghar mein(fazol na phiron) or apnai gunahon per royA kro"..

Ye such hai k hum yaha is dunya mein Allah ko mutasir(raazi) krne aye hain naa k us bandon ko. Lakin Allah to har insaan k dilon mein basta hai to kya kbhi hm ne soucha k amoman hm apne gussai se usi dil ko kis had dukhatain hain apnai gussai k halat mein

(HUM APNI GHALTYON K BEHETREEN WAKEEL OR DUSRON KI GHLTYON K LYE BEHETREEN jUDGE HAIN)  

Agar kisi shaks ne ap k sth kuch bura kya,dhoka dya, jhoot bhola ho ya, ap per zilum kya ho to hm maafi to door ki bt hai gussai me na jane kya kya bol detai hain usaii, kbhii soucha hai apne k raat din mustaqil hum Allah ki kitnii nafarmanii krtai hain us k haq ko pura krne se ghafil rehtai hain or na jane kitnii hi ghltyan krtain hain lakin is k bawajood Allah ne hmein apni rehmaton se kbhii mehroom nhn kya or hmesha apne hifz-o-aman mein rakha Alhamdulillah,Isi tarah hum Allah k bandoon ko maaf krne ki salahyat kiun nhn raktain? Q hum apnai sarai wadain toor kr gussai mein unhain chor jatai hain? Q hmen uski sari achayan bhol kr sirf brayian hi nazar ane lgtii hain??

Qayamat k din hum Allah se apnai kitnai hi gunahoon ko maaf krdya jane ki khuahish raktain hain.Isi lye hmein cahye k logo ko maaf kr k apna dil saaf rakhain or un se maafi mangai jin ka hm ne kbhi dil dukhaya ho maafi mangne se koi chota ya bara nhn hojata..

Gussa ek keel k manind hota hai jese ek jagah pe hum keel thok kr usai nikal bhii dain to wo jagah khalii hi rahe gi isi tarah gussai mein niklai hye alfaz samne walai k dil mein keel thoknai ka kam krta hai... or fakhar se btatai hain k (mjhe to buhat gussa ata hai,me gussai ki/ka buhat taiz hun,mene falah ko gussai mein buhat sunaya etc etc)

"gussa tanha ata hai or jatai apki aqal,zaban,iklaqyat or shakhsiyat ki khobsorti ko le jata "

humein chye k hum logo k lye keel na bnen or maaf krne k adat zyada se zyada apna lain ta k hum dunya or akhirat dono mein sukoon se reh sakain...